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A landmark book that reveals the way boys think and that shows parents, educators and coaches how to reach out and help boys overcome their most common and difficult challenges -- by the bestselling author who changed our conception of adolescent girls.
 
Do you constantly struggle to pull information from your son, student, or athlete, only to encounter mumbling or evasive assurances such as “It’s nothing” or “I’m good?”  Do you sense that the boy you care about is being bullied, but that he’ll do anything to avoid your “help?”   Have you repeatedly reminded him that schoolwork and chores come before video games only to spy him reaching for the controller as soon as you leave the room? Have you watched with frustration as your boy flounders with girls?
 
Welcome to Boy World. It’s a place where asking for help or showing emotional pain often feels impossible. Where sports and video games can mean everything, but working hard in school frequently earns ridicule from “the guys” even as they ask to copy assignments. Where “masterminds” dominate and friends ruthlessly insult each other but can never object when someone steps over the line. Where hiding problems from adults is the ironclad rule because their involvement only makes situations worse. Boy world is governed by social hierarchies and a powerful set of unwritten rules that have huge implications for your boy’s relationships, his interactions with you, and the man he’ll become. If you want what’s best for him, you need to know what these rules are and how to work with them effectively.
 
What you’ll find in Masterminds and Wingmen is critically important for every parent – or anyone who cares about boys – to know. Collaborating with a large team of middle- and high-school-age editors, Rosalind Wiseman has created an unprecedented guide to the life your boy is actually experiencing – his on-the-ground reality.  Not only does Wiseman challenge you to examine your assumptions, she offers innovative coping strategies aimed at helping your boy develop a positive, authentic, and strong sense of self.

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“Rosalind Wiseman, who so insightfully explained the world of girls in Queen Bees and Wannabes, has done it again . . . This is an essential guide – not just for parents but anyone who wants to better understand their own childhood and its impact.” --Anderson Cooper
 
“Rosalind Wiseman offers readers deep, nuanced, up-to-the-minute insight into today''s boy. She explains how and why boys, in so many areas, make it easy for parents and educators to miss out on their suffering and their strength. Most important, she shows how to reach out and lift boys up without getting on their nerves.” --Wendy Mogel, PhD, author of the New York Times bestseller The Blessing of a Skinned Knee
 
"Rosalind Wiseman, the well-known ‘girl expert,’ has a real feel for the inner life of boys, and for the way they interact with their parents. Her new book, Masterminds and Wingmen, contains some of the best advice for communicating with boys that I’ve ever read: wise, clear and tough. The brilliant chapter on why boys lies to their parents is alone worth the price of the book.” --Michael Thompson, coauthor of the New York Times bestseller Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Life of Boys

“Trying to communicate with boys, teenage boys especially-- can sometimes feel like cracking the world’s most complicated secret code. What makes Masterminds and Wingmen so remarkable is how thoroughly it decrypts boy-world language.  It allows us to really connect with boys.  If you want to understand what’s in your son’s head, read this book!” --Michael Gurian, New York Times bestselling author of The Wonder of Boys
 
“Rosalind Wiseman is perhaps America''s foremost guide through the complex social hierarchies and cruel logics that govern adolescents'' lives . . . With clear analysis and down-to-earth practical advice, this book will guide many many conversations between parents and their sons.” --Michael Kimmel, author of Guyland: The Perilous World Where Boys Become Men
 
"Rosalind Wiseman brings a distinctive perspective and voice to whatever issue she takes up . . . I found the book insightful and useful, as both a father to sons and as a professional working with violent youth who must deal with the most serious life issues facing other people''s sons." --James Garbarino, PhD, author of Lost Boys: Why Our Sons Turn Violent and How We Can Save Them
 
“Don''t even try parenting, teaching or coaching a boy without reading Wiseman''s book -- a field manual that you’ll absolutely need if you wish to enter the strange and wondrous world of guys.” --Richard Whitmire, author of Why Boys Fail
 
“The world bombards boys with confusing and destructive messages– the net result is the creation of characters instead of young men with character.  Masterminds and Wingmen will help parents, teachers, and coaches understand young boys and make a difference in their lives.  An intriguing read.” --Dr. Kevin Leman, author of Have a New Kid by Friday

About the Author

Rosalind Wiseman is a teacher, thought leader and bestselling author of Queen Bees & Wannabees (the book that inspired the movie and musical Mean Girls) and  Masterminds & Wingmen, as well as the curriculum Owning Up: Empowering Adolescents to Confront Social Cruelty, Bullying, and Injustice. She is the founder of Cultures of Dignity and lives in Colorado with her husband and two children. Follow her on Twitter at @culturesodignity or on Facebook at culturesofdignity.

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1

It’s Time to Enter Boy World

Like many parents, I wake every morning with my mind filled with Post-It notes of all the things I’m behind on. On April 12, 2011, I opened my eyes with only one thought: it’s time to write a boys’ book. For years I’ve wanted to write a book for boys that would be a complement to one I’d written for girls, Queen Bees and Wannabes. When parents and teachers would ask me about the possibility, I’d thank them for their confidence and promise that I’d get around to it one day, not really sure that I would. Ironically, my two children are both boys, which always gets a laugh when I’m introduced as an expert on girls. How can that Queen Bees woman, that Mean Girls woman, be the mother of only boys?

The truth is, I’ve always taught boys, and they constantly write to me for advice. But up until now I’ve never publicly shared their struggles and what I’ve told them. Some of their problems are important but small, like “How can I tell a girl I like her?” or “How do I tell a girl I don’t like her?” or “How do I stop my friend from bugging me about how short I am?” Other questions are bigger, like, “I have a coach who screams ‘faggot’ at one of the kids. Some of the other guys are going after him too. I hate it, but what can I do?” “I want to quit the team but I can’t tell my parents.” Or, “My dad always, always thinks I’m guilty of something, or lying, or lazy. Every time he lectures me I just want to explode, but I smile and say nothing. My mom makes excuses for him. I can’t live like this but I don’t know what to do.”

I put off writing a book about boys because I wasn’t certain I could deliver the level of insight that I’d been praised for in Queen Bees. Did I know boys well enough? Could I get them to tell me what I needed to know? I knew that boys are much more complex than popular culture gives them credit for. I knew there was a lot going on beyond their clipped responses like, “I’m fine.” But I wasn’t sure that I could write something that was equal to what boys, parents, and adults who care about boys need and deserve.

I needed a sign.

I got it when I was least expecting it. In the spring of 2011, I met with Cartoon Network’s CEO, Stu Snyder, and Alice Cahn, the network’s vice president of social responsibility, to discuss the possibility of working together on their “Stop Bullying: Speak Up” campaign. I’d brought along Emily Gibson, who helps me strategize new partnerships. As usual, Emily got right to the point. “Stu, I’m really glad we’re meeting, but I’m not sure I understand why. Rosalind is more known for her work with girls, and we know most of Cartoon Network’s viewers are boys, so why her?”

Stu immediately answered. “You can see it in her eyes.”

What’s in my eyes? I wondered. Do I have something weird in my eyes?

“You can see she has boys in her eyes,” Stu said. What was he talking about? Then I realized exactly what he was referring to. I’d seen that look. I’d even written about it in another book, Queen Bee Moms and Kingpin Dads. I just hadn’t realized it was my facial expression too. That look says to others: “I’m regularly attacked with Nerf guns as a display of affection. I’m not surprised to receive an email or phone call from the principal. There may have been a time, just once, when I realized the boys’ principal was calling and I pressed Ignore because I just really didn’t want to hear what the boys had done. At any moment I must cope with the following challenges: my children destroying something of high value, hurting themselves doing something mind-blowingly stupid, or facing a hygiene problem so severe that lesser beings would flee or vomit. But because I’m these kids’ mother, I’ll hold them accountable, patch them back together or bring them to someone who can, while shaking my head at the ridiculous reason we’re at this place, seeking help. And yes, I’ll force these desecrators of bodily hygiene to clean up after themselves—even if they claim they can’t smell anything wrong.”

I returned from my meeting in Atlanta, and the next morning I woke up ready to write. I had just needed someone on the outside to let me know I was ready.

For Better and Worse: How I Started the Queen Bee/Mean Girl Craze

There are a few more things to know about me beyond that I have a reputation for working with girls. I’ve taught in schools for almost twenty years. I started by founding a nonprofit organization that taught kids from fifth to twelfth grade a social justice and ethical leadership course I developed called “Owning Up™.” That early work is the basis for the training I still do with educators and administrators. About eight years into teaching, I wrote Queen Bees and Wannabes, a book for parents of girls about what the world looks like to a girl and how parents can best guide their daughters through it.

I wrote about girls because I felt that our understanding of girls and the connection between their friendships and their personal development wasn’t as good as it needed to be. By 2000, a lot had been written about girls, self-esteem, and body image, but I couldn’t find anything intended for a general audience that spoke to girls’ group dynamics. I believed that girls’ conflicts with others were unfairly dismissed as drama and cattiness. We weren’t giving girls real-life skills to handle conflict with their dignity intact. I saw that girls were valued based on their ability to conform to the unwritten rules of what I termed “Girl World,” and that these dynamics in turn impacted girls’ ability to be socially competent as girls and women.

I can’t quite remember the sequence of when and how all this happened, but right before Queen Bees was published, I was profiled in a New York Times Magazine article entitled “Mean Girls.” A few days later, my literary agent asked if I’d talk to a woman named Tina Fey, because she was interested in buying the rights to the book. I had no idea who she was. I’d just had a baby (my oldest son Elijah), so even if I was watching TV, I was so tired I couldn’t remember anything I was seeing anyway.

Before you think I was jumping for joy that someone had asked to buy film rights for Queen Bees, you should know that I was already jaded enough about media and entertainment that I needed to be convinced. I’d had a couple of strange calls from people asking to buy my life rights—which would have made for an extremely compelling story of a woman desperately trying to raise money for her little nonprofit from fancy foundations while wearing clothes decorated with baby vomit.

But I took the call. Twenty minutes later, I was convinced. If someone was going to do something as crazy as taking a nonfiction, how-to parenting book and turning it into a major motion picture, Tina was the person to do it. All I asked of her was that she not make it stupid. She promised, and I believed her. Not only because she was clearly intelligent, but also because she appeared to be motivated in the same way I was. If you’re going to put yourself out there, you can’t do it half-assed. (That said, with more than twelve years of parenting under my belt, I’m much more accepting of personal mediocrity.)

With the popularity of Queen Bees and Mean Girls, I was increasingly called upon to speak on girls’ issues, which was great but also made me uncomfortable. While the attention on girls was needed, the message was also sometimes watered down or used as a way to demonize girls. In addition, with all the conversations about girls, boys, as a distinct group, disappeared. Recently, with the avalanche of attention on bullying and school shootings, the closest we’ve come to recognizing boys’ issues is in our discussions of teen suicides, which we generally attribute to homophobia and lack of gun control. Not that those issues aren’t worth discussing—but they’re far from the only boys’ issues that need to be addressed.

Could I Get Boys to Help Me?

With every book I write, I ask the people I’m writing about to help me. But when I decided to do a book for boys, I remember wondering if it would be possible to get boys to reveal their deepest feelings, thoughts, and most meaningful experiences. Could I get them to answer my questions day in and day out? Would they really read twenty-page drafts of chapters multiple times for no reason other than that they wanted to? (I did offer to write college recommendations if they worked hard.) Yes. They did, and it was far easier than I expected. First, I put out a few calls to schools—public, charter, private, parochial, international, all boys, big, small, urban, suburban, and rural—and held my breath. Almost immediately, schools of every type were on board. Then a few weeks later, as I was wrapping up a high school presentation, I mentioned to the students that I was working on a boys’ book and if anyone wanted to help me, they should please let me know. I couldn’t believe the response. Boys walked right up to me and volunteered. (So did girls, by the way.) After that, I made the request after every presentation. What surprised me the most was who came forward. Looking back now, it makes perfect sense that the “golden boys” with the highest social status, like the athletes, volunteered, but they weren’t the only ones; many different kids volunteered. By email and Twitter, boys found me and told me they were on board. Within a month, I had over 160 boys contributing to what you’re about to read. In their own words, here are a few of them telling you why they did it.

I feel that helping people who are in bad situations I have already been in is a duty. —Mathias, 16

I’m doing it because I want to be part of something bigger that will make a difference for our gender and my “peers,” but also because I feel like our “Boys World” is something that’s been kept in the dark for too long. —Victor, 17

Sometimes I think working on this book helps me more than the other boys. —Grant, 15

I want this book to inform, educate, and reform the social structure of boys in their natural environments. Things happen in the realm of boys’ worlds that are never mentioned in the public eye, or are brought to concern by adults. By contributing to this book, I hope to redefine the way of thinking when it comes to how boys interact. —Cody, 18

Once we began the project, it was nonstop arguing, debating, and laughing—and an occasional tear when boys shared something particularly painful. The boys made me realize that things I’d assumed about them for years were wrong. They told me stories that were so funny and stupid, I cried from laughing. I gave them problems other kids wrote to me about, and they had intense debates about how to help these kids they didn’t even know, then emailed me because they were worried about what had happened to the kid in trouble. They shared their most personal stories, feelings, and opinions—all to help you know how to reach out to the boy in your life in the best possible way.

I’ve also asked parents to share their experiences, concerns, and worries with you. They’re going to tell you some stories that I hope will make you laugh and make you remember that you’re not alone trying to raise these people who sometimes seem determined to make it as rough on you as possible.

We’re going to walk a difficult line in this book. You may read something that challenges you to the core. That’s never pleasant. In fact, it’s usually a highly anxious experience that leaves you wishing you’d left well enough alone. If this happens to you, I’m asking you to face that challenge without shutting down or beating yourself up for being a bad parent.

You also don’t have to like your son or any of the boys he hangs out with. You’re allowed to have moments of resentment when you’re busting your butt for him and he doesn’t seem to notice. You’re allowed to be angry that the child who used to give you hugs and kisses turns away from you. You’re allowed to fantasize about the fabulous carefree life you’d have if you weren’t driving him to games all weekend. You aren’t a bad parent if you go out with good friends and admit these feelings out loud. If you don’t acknowledge them, then you will become one of those parents who robotically smile as they tell you that their kids are perfect, but in reality can’t laugh at themselves or ask for help when they come up against the real-life, no-holds-barred, humbling work that it takes to raise a boy into an honorable man.

How Are You Really Coming Across to Your Son?

I’ve sat with a lot of parents who insist that they’ve talked to their sons about how important honesty and integrity are to them and been completely confused when the boys haven’t acted in ways that reflect those values. In their confusion, they tend to blame others. While it certainly can be true that parents talk to their sons about values, I’ve realized that parents often speak to their sons about their family values without placing them in a context where these values will be called upon. It isn’t enough to say “Be honest” or “Do the right thing,” because in moments of conflict many of us lack the skills to move through the fear and put our values into action. The context of the situation really matters more than a catchphrase. What’s way more useful for boys is to talk to them about what integrity looks like to you under duress. This book will bring these moments of conflict front and center and then show you how to make your values meaningful within the problem your son is facing.

This gets us to role-modeling, one of the most-talked-about concepts in parenting and teaching, but also one that frequently isn’t supported with our actions. Our children aren’t stupid, and they’re not naive. They see when adults around them act hypocritically. They see what we value and believe by our actions, not our words. If we try to present a perfect image of ourselves, they will see through it. In order to earn our boys’ respect, we must examine our own behavior.

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Imperial Topaz
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The Ideal Book for Mothers, Teachers, and Women to Understand Boys and their Daily Dilemmas
Reviewed in the United States on February 4, 2018
This is one of my MOST HIGHLY RECOMMENDED BOOKS. I purchased this book for two reasons. I had read Rosalind Wiseman''s other book, Queen Bees and Wannabees, which was ABSOLUTELY SUPERB; and I had a current student (boy) who was being physically bullied at school,... See more
This is one of my MOST HIGHLY RECOMMENDED BOOKS.

I purchased this book for two reasons. I had read Rosalind Wiseman''s other book, Queen Bees and Wannabees, which was ABSOLUTELY SUPERB; and I had a current student (boy) who was being physically bullied at school, and was looking for some new ideas on how to help him.

Masterminds and Wingmen was equally good as her first book, and I did find a very small (but adequate) amount in this book (about two or three pages) which dealt with strategies to use when someone is being physically bullied. They were helpful in that I had not thought of them before. It covered IF you need to fight, the issues you really need to be aware of first. It also gave some suggestions toward solving the problem without fighting that I had not thought of before (and I speak as both a parent and a teacher of 30 years'' experience). If you are looking for a book specifically on how to deal with boys'' problems of physical bullying, I would have liked a LOT more on this subject, but so far, I haven''t found any better book. At least what this book touched on was useful.

Aside from the question of physical bullying, this book was FANTASTIC. I am a parent, but not of boys. I would recommend this book to any parent, and to EVERY TEACHER. I learned so many things that I had never even thought about.

The most surprising chapters for me dealt with every aspect of video games. As a person with zero interest in video games, I learned all about why they are so important to elementary-school and middle-school boys. Several chapters cover every aspect of how boys relate to each other through video games, and how if one understands the characters and ideas in video games, how one can much better understand boys'' thinking and mentality (and even married men''s thinking and mentality). I now think I will try out a few video games--not because I''m expecting to love them, but because this experience will help me better relate to my young male pupils as a teacher.

This book covers many, many different aspects of boys'' culture, thinking, and daily dilemmas. It is the perfect book for girls and women to read in order to understand the culture of boys and men.
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Parents will navigate the inevitable tests their sons will face
Reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2018
I read the book because my preteen was telling me very little about his social life. He began creating excuses not to go to school, all the time. He was crying and begging me not to go. I would ask him why or ask him to tell me what was going on... he''s such a private,... See more
I read the book because my preteen was telling me very little about his social life. He began creating excuses not to go to school, all the time. He was crying and begging me not to go. I would ask him why or ask him to tell me what was going on... he''s such a private, bottled up, quiet boy, however, he shows his emotions through boxing, throwing darts, being destructive, yelling, gaming.... come to find out; he is being bullied, (and has been, for a few months now. My son told me that anything he tried to do to avoid conflict, it wouldn''t help) and he''s not the only one in his class that is getting bullied, all by the same child. Immediately, I called my son''s father, we are divorced, and told him I was calling a meeting with the principle and or vice principal and our son would not be returning to school until a plan for the bully was in place!

A very resourceful book!!

Written with sensitivity to the issues that young men are facing today and ways that we can help them to become more confident, well rounded, and find their inner strength.

I took so many mental notes, plus handwritten reminders for myself, for the upcoming conversations I will soon have with my son. I also wrote the I PROMISE/ HE PROMISES contract out for both my son and I; to discuss and sign.
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Catherine Elizabeth Clay
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Made my boy cry
Reviewed in the United States on December 3, 2018
I''m reading this to my son and as we got to the part of self image he started to cry because he could identify with the moobs torment. These comments have left my mini me very hurt and we were able to open a dialog that needed to be. His father died a... See more
I''m reading this to my son and as we got to the part of self image he started to cry because he could identify with the moobs torment.

These comments have left my mini me very hurt and we were able to open a dialog that needed to be.

His father died a year ago so I have to play both rolls. I had to tell him he had moobs too "yeah those were from muscles"

"no he could fill a nice a or b cup, which I didn''t mind being on the opposite side. So it comes naturally" I didn''t go into deets on lipo and how many men deal with them that way but you get the gist. Reading this with your child, or listening, is ideal.

Like "motherless Daughters" was for me I hope to gain insight into being a great wingman.

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P. M. Parker
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A MUST READ! (plus parent discussion group?)
Reviewed in the United States on November 9, 2015
I cant say enough about this book. If you have a loved one (child, grandchild, nephew) who is a teen/preteen boy, you absolutely MUST read this. If you are a youth pastor or teacher or scout leader of a teen boy, you absolutely MUST read this. I heard about it from a... See more
I cant say enough about this book. If you have a loved one (child, grandchild, nephew) who is a teen/preteen boy, you absolutely MUST read this. If you are a youth pastor or teacher or scout leader of a teen boy, you absolutely MUST read this. I heard about it from a friend, who heard about it through her son''s school (in colorado). the school is doing a series of book club/ discussion groups on this book for parents of boys about to enter middle school. I would love to start a similar parent''s discussion group at my son''s school! If you think preteen and teen "girls are hard" and that "boys are easy" , it is only because we don''t know what is going on inside a boy, but their teen years are JUST AS tumultuous as girls. The author points out that she isn''t writing this so that you can confront your boy and make him talk about everything in the book; rather, her intent is that you gain an understanding and awareness of your son''s world to better support him. Just read it!!! You won''t be sorry.
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William
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Very insightful book
Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2013
Clearly this author has done her research, and she brings clarity of thought to her presentation. There is a lot of excellent perspective both in the subjects chosen and the suggestions given. I am a father and I could feel that she was writing more to a mother, yet that is... See more
Clearly this author has done her research, and she brings clarity of thought to her presentation. There is a lot of excellent perspective both in the subjects chosen and the suggestions given. I am a father and I could feel that she was writing more to a mother, yet that is not problematic for me, the material is strong in itself. A lot of the strength is in the specificity, looking at a particular behavior or situation, and searching out the motivations and how responses by the parent will be seen by the boy.

There are many paragraph-long quotations given by boys in response to specific situational questions. They are good for the most part yet some seem to me to be too literate and conceptual to come directly from boys of that age. Without polishing them up.

The one glaring absence for me was the failure to feed the boy what he needs to develop in the best way. As an example, empathy for others may be developed or neglected in childhood. And a failure there is of immense importance. To the contrary, the author seems very attuned to viewing the child as a separate being who has needs and merits guidance. But always from the outside. The parent-child interactions are transactional in nature, not developmental.
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Alexander B. Johnson
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Outstanding Insights into the World of Boys
Reviewed in the United States on January 12, 2014
As one who has worked in Middle and High Schools or over 40 years, I thought I knew lots about boys. How wrong I was. This exceptionally well-researched and written book takes you inside what really motivates boys and how their social structure dictates what they do and how... See more
As one who has worked in Middle and High Schools or over 40 years, I thought I knew lots about boys. How wrong I was. This exceptionally well-researched and written book takes you inside what really motivates boys and how their social structure dictates what they do and how they respond to both peers and adults. I strongly recommend this book to anyone who has felt frustration in their relationships with boys or simply asked "Why?" As a male, I also enjoyed the insights into why I was such a teenage toad, and how I somehow managed to arrive at adulthood in one reasonable piece. You will have lots of chuckles along the way, some "ah ha" moments, and a better road map as to how to successfully survive the boys in your life.
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Real talk for real moms
Reviewed in the United States on April 24, 2018
You can tell the author is a mom with realistic expectations and experiences. I love that she has enlisted the voices of actual teenage boys. She also includes a section on "outsiders" - kids with disabilities that automatically put them on the outside of teen... See more
You can tell the author is a mom with realistic expectations and experiences. I love that she has enlisted the voices of actual teenage boys. She also includes a section on "outsiders" - kids with disabilities that automatically put them on the outside of teen cliques.
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This is especially problematic on a kindle where you can not easily flip back multiple chapters to find the original meaning ...
Reviewed in the United States on December 11, 2017
The book is helpful but the writing is a bit long winded leading me to find the author''s point and then flip forward. The author also falls back on abbreviations throughout the book without reminding the reader what the abbreviation stands for. The book would be greatly... See more
The book is helpful but the writing is a bit long winded leading me to find the author''s point and then flip forward. The author also falls back on abbreviations throughout the book without reminding the reader what the abbreviation stands for. The book would be greatly improved if the author would restate the meaning of abbreviations at least once in each chapter where used, This is especially problematic on a kindle where you can not easily flip back multiple chapters to find the original meaning (e.g. seal , or almb, etc)
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This is an EXCELLENT read for any teacher or parent
Reviewed in Canada on July 12, 2015
This book touches on the hot topics, taboo topics and the dialogue that parents, teachers, friends can use to re-direct kids onto the path of being successful, creating healthy boundaries, growing healthy self-esteem, celebrating individuality and most importantly making...See more
This book touches on the hot topics, taboo topics and the dialogue that parents, teachers, friends can use to re-direct kids onto the path of being successful, creating healthy boundaries, growing healthy self-esteem, celebrating individuality and most importantly making decisions when the pressure is almost too much. This is an EXCELLENT read for any teacher or parent.
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clear informative and important
Reviewed in Spain on April 13, 2014
We are in a masculinity mess, a time where boys are failing in their education, social and work lives, faced with an array of social and cultural expectations that as parents we have a duty to be aware of and respond to sensitively. This book is an essential read for those...See more
We are in a masculinity mess, a time where boys are failing in their education, social and work lives, faced with an array of social and cultural expectations that as parents we have a duty to be aware of and respond to sensitively. This book is an essential read for those parents who want to know better to do better. No matter how old your son is (or interested parents of girls) this book will help make sense of their world, stripping back the hysteria of suspecting our children are deviants or the naivety of imagining them angels. A book to help us hold our boys hands as they grow into men.
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An excellent resource for the elementary counselling office
Reviewed in Canada on January 16, 2017
An excellent resource for the elementary counselling office! This is a book I keep in my personal library and often recommend to parents.
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good reading
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